Couldn't agree more..
Train Journey's in Southern India in reserved coaches is quite organised. I mean everything falls in place. No drama, nothing.
Here in north, Even a WL ticket holder will ask the cnf seat holder to adjust in the day (even myself has done that by befriending the cnf ticket holder :P )
There is lot more masala apart from that...
more... which you hear while travelling in NR trains. (like some Maa-behn happening at a distant for very petty issues etc etc)